...cities. The Phillipses lived in Minneapolis, Eau Claire, Wis., and San Francisco, and had a son and daughter, Edward Jay and Jeanne. Esther lived in Chicago, had a daughter, Margo, and in 1955 got a job writing an advice column. She...

...and Holly Heikkenen, Brainerd, and Troy and Debbie Fields, Brainerd. Jeremy and Nicole Doyle, Brainerd, a boy, Edward Jay, 9 pounds, 12 ounces, June 16, 2008. Grandparents are John and Kathy Osterloth, Rice Lake, Wis., and Jay and...

...that his son is facing at the home of his chain-smoking -- and obviously addicted -- grandmother. CONFIDENTIAL TO EDWARD JAY: Happy birthday, son. Your father and I are so very proud of you.